would you date a man on probation

[katy71]

that was convicted of assaulting a women 3 times in domestic abuse and got a 5yr restraining order or would you give them the benefit of the doubt if he said he didnt do it.

[boxtops]

I think I would give him a very wide berth.

[lslowry]

Is this a wind up?

[sherrardk]

Think I'd give this one a miss (how can you 'not do' something 3 times?).

[tinkerbell23]

i have....in fact i managed to string it out for 4n half years!! and live with them!! xxx

[tinkerbell23]

ooh....but not for assaulting woman...just re-read ur question......hmmm xx

[boxtops]

Katy's previous posts have all been to do with court and magistrates' issues, except one about goldfish. It's a strange question. 3 times? hardly an accident or a case of mistaken identity, surely.

[snags]

''would you give them the benefit of the doubt''

pmsl... post of the week surely...

[Prudie]

5 years suggests it was serious too, walk away

[Bobbisox]

No I would tell him to P1ss off and go look for another mug who might believe such sh1t !

[cazzz1975]

bizarre
http://www.theanswerb...l/Question870096.html

me personally, no, I would stay well away unless he would like a fat lip

[4getmenot]

I read something in the paper yesterday about someone saying it may be a good idea to have a list of men or woman that have domestically abused their partners. They would be on it so many years, so as long as they sorted themselves got counselling etc then they wouldnt be on list forever. I think its a good idea.

[boxtops]

well spotted cazzz

[cherrychapstick]

in answer to your questions , yes i have done in the past didn't get a restraining order though but he did tell me he didn't do it and she had done it herself :( , i was silly and believed him for 11 and a half years till he did the same to me :( , then i noticed the pattern and got to hell away , but that was all them years wasted on a guy that was a prick ,2 good things came out the relationship my daughter and son :) , but now i am a single mum!!

[katy71]

just askin because yes i did post previous on courts etc
found out he is bak in town in the clubs chatting the girls up and denying it saying he was set up by the system
i am living far away now

[Mick-Talbot]

well that makes everything crystal clear that does.

[Bobbisox]

How old are you Katy?
just the text speak suggests you are young and deserve much better?

[boxtops]

Katy, he may be back in circulation but he's far away - leave well alone, you don't need to have anything else to do with him, or speculate about him, or anything.

[katy71]

yeh your right just feel sory 4 his next victim

[sherrardk]

Don't mean to sound hard - but you have to think of yourself now. Take care, x

[brenda]

Stay well away katy, as others have advised.Don't even waste time thinking about him -- not worth it.Keep safe and do not run unecessary risks.