Oh good grief... Grow a pair and talk to her and stop being so silly. If she cries then it's ok, she's allowed to be sad it's over. You may as well get the practice in, it's just a moment in time and it'll be over soon enough.
Oh my god, ummmm. Was ginge only 16? You dirty old woman ;-)
Jimzyboi123, here is a bit of advice from a man. Grow a pair, zip in a spine and don't be a fuggin wimp. Tell her to her face, instead of being a spasmodic wuss!!