Texting between dates

[JezUK1]

Ok I have been talking to a girl online and met up with her a few days ago and it went really well and we have arranged to meet again Tuesday evening. We are both 26. I would like this to turn into a relationship! This weekend she is off on a hen do. Ok she has been texting me which is good but things to say are running out lol. Should I be cheeky teasing or play safe? I want her to start wanting me etc. I'm finding she is on my mind loads. Cheers

[Sqad]

Luckily your post is being answered by an expert on female relationships.
You say that you have met her once, so that should give you the answer to your question.
If she is "as thick as two short planks" then it really doesn´t matter how you text her BUT if on the other hand she has something between her ears, with a touch of personality, then my advice would be to play it safe..........know what I mean?

[redman41]

Yes Jez, Squad is our resident expert on all matters to do with Love and Sex !
He keeps a Wife and Mistress satisfied.........know what I mean ? :-)))

[Barmaid]

Play safe!!! If she has half a brain, the worst thing you can do is indicate at this early stage that you want to get in her knickers.

[Sqad]

red\barmaid..LOL

barmaid...why else would a bloke ask a woman out if he.....how did you put it?..........ah! yes.........." wanted to get into her knickers".........how I hate that vulgar phrase :-)

Now whether or not he is successful is a totally different topic.

[sara3]

you've met once, so when are you meeting again?

you'll scare her off if you look this needy.

[redman41]

If she notices that you have a lump in your Trousers tell her it's your Pay Rise !

[Sqad]

red....LOL

Now if she is a "dog" and many are, then "give her one" straight away.....then get checked for STDs

If she is a decent looker and an intelligent woman, wait until the 2nd date before you "give her one"...................but still get checked for STDs.

[Sqad]

Donald....women can´t resist me....especially some on AB........LOL

[redman41]

When Squad went on a first date his Lady Friend would say '' Is that a Pay rise or are you pleased to see me'' !

[Sqad]

red......they would sing..."I can tell by your trousers that you love me"

[redman41]

LOL Squad !!

[JezUK1]

I must admit some of your replies have definitely put a smile on my face. I have in the past had long-term relationships around half a year ago I came out of a 3 year relationship. I''m 26 years old.

 As I have been out of the dating game for a while I just wanted to refresh myself really. I don't just want to get into her knickers but obviously that is a bonus.  I would like it to hopefully eventually progress to a long-term relationship. At the moment we are texting 4 or 5 times a day and I'm just trying to figure out how to be. Do I try and come over as funny witty etc? Or do I simply just be myself.

[sara3]

Jez, you can put on an act of being whoever you think you should be, but you'll have to keep that act up forever.

best to just be yourself then!

[JezUK1]

Oh for got to ask when your say play it safe. Brake it down for me?

[redman41]

Be yourself JezUK1, no more no less. You will be found out eventually if you are otherwise !!

[boxtops]

Just be you, jez - a permanent joker can get wearing, particularly if you hope this might turn into a longer-term relationship. Arrange to see her again - just get on with it - text her next time and say" I hope we can meet up again when you get back from the hen do". If she's not interested, she can only say no.