Should it matter? The Number of sexual partners a girlfriend has had?

[JezUK1]

I was just curious if this bothers other guys? Does it bother you how many sexual partners your girlfriend has had in the past?

[Answerprancer]

...only if their willies were bigger than mine.

[Answerprancer]

...feeling better now ? :-)

[cupid04]

I've never had a girlfriend, I'm quite happy with my man!

[Captin Kirk]

http://www.theanswerb...g/Question928260.html

Worth a read ...

[Answerprancer]

I think the "other guys" part of his question might indicate that he is looking for answers from ..erm - other guys ;-)

[JezUK1]

Er ok not too helpful lol.

[Answerprancer]

...dah, you'll be ok. Gettt in there my sonn!!!!
(that will be £50 please - leave the cheque with my receptionist)

[Captin Kirk]

Just think of them "breaking her in" for you ... you'll reap the benefits if she knows what she's doing.

[Huderon]

No, doesn't bother me in the slightest, and I wouldn't ask her how many partners she had in the past. The past is the past, what matters is the now and the future.

Still, if you want it all to end in tears, obsessing about her past is one way to go about it. Most men are not amazing lovers, but if you concentrate on doing your level best to make sure she enjoys the sex, she will think you are great and won't be making any unfavourable comparisons with previous partners. Or, you can keep feeding your obsession and enjoy the train wreck when it happens.

[ummmm]

I don't think many women compare their current partner with their ex's.

[daffy654]

Most women lie about how many sexual partners they've had anyway.

[ummmm]

I said that in another similar thread Daffy. Men tend to add on a few as well...

It's really not important unless she's been having loads of unprotected sex.

[RATTER15]

I would not want any woman that has had more pr!cks than a second hand dartboard, it would really be a big turn off, that aside, it doesn't say a lot for her moral standards either.

I would find any woman that has slept around, quite disgusting!!

[ummmm]

Same with men RATTER.

[daffy654]

How many would you say is an acceptable number of past partners for a woman then Ratter? and how many for a man?

[joggerjayne]

If they get into 4 figures, then they're starting to look a bit undiscerning.

[RATTER15]

Yes ummm same with men, though it doesn't appear to bother Women to such a degree for some reason.

The amount of previous sexual partners would be totally down to those partners, I can only speak for myself.

What I find an acceptable amount? well as I'm a happily engaged to Mrs RATTER, she fell well within the limits of an extremely respectable lady indeed :-)

I probably would not fall within anybodies acceptable limits though, but im very lucky that Mrs RATTER has accepted me without asking, if she asks, I would not be able to put a number on it.

[rowanwitch]

Strange thing..most of the women I know when in new relationships always say with the current one 'it's the best ' because you have the emotional connection too...and that isn't about size, technique or experience...

[ummmm]

I think women think much the same as men.