Heart Broken

[milly143]

My boyfriend ended our relationship this morning. I'm so upset. There wasn't even any real reason. How can people claim to love you and just end it all in 5 minutes.

[anneasquith]

milly, so sorry . have you been together long ?

[milly143]

nearly 3 years.

[NoMercy]

He must have given a reason, albeit a pathetic one, when he ended it. What did he say?

[milly143]

He had other things he wanted to do. That was the whole explanation.

[anneasquith]

after 3 years, thats all the explanation he gave you ?

[cazzz1975]

sorry to hear that milly x

[milly143]

Yep. He was in and out with all his stuff within 5 minutes. Feel like a total fool.

[sara3]

Milly, I'm sorry.. but don't feel like a fool. he must have been planning this for a while and thought it was the easiest way to do it. (for him, obviously!)

[Jemisa]

Awww! Milly I'm sad for you but evidently it wasn't meant to be. It will be hard for a little while. Think of men as like buses' there's always another one along in a minute' & you can then decide whether to get on or wait for the next one.

Your pain WILL subside but it will take time, You are the important one now so look after yourself.
Good luck Milly

jem

[NoMercy]

Well that sounds very sudden. Do you think someone else might be involved?

[DosAmigos]

He's not worth fretting over Milly. Take a time-out, recover, and find someone who will put you first.

[anneasquith]

were you living together ? hope im not being too nosy.

[society]

Don't be sad Milly. Life goes on. Look at it as a new beginning for you.

Perhaps he was getting nothing out of the relationship and wanted out. At least he had the decency to say he was leaving and not disappear and then tex or called you on the phone to tell you the relationship is over.

[milly143]

No we havn't been living together although it was on the cards - his idea. I don't want to think about if there is someone else involved. Just don't understand it.

[B00]

"He had other things he wanted to do."

you do realise that translates to "he has other women/woman he wants to do"...right?

I know you won't see it now, but it sounds like he's done you a favour- bogged off out of your life.

[B00]

oh bugger, your last reply wasn't there when i started typing.

Sorry.

[askyourgran]

I'm sorry to hear that milly. Hope you can eventually put it down to experience. There is probably someone much better for you.

[NoMercy]

B00... that was my initial thought.

Just because they were living together, doesn't mean he wasn't seeing someone else. There has to be a reason he left so suddenly.

[primrosea]

aw bless your heart. You saw no signs at all? Believe me, you feel like broccoli now, but in time you will feel better. Honestly x