i agree with purplehair. she is protecting herself...human nature....she really needs time to think and research..let her know and give space...but i have to say, you must also respect the fact that she may feel entirely different to you as you do to her. you sound very caring which will reallly help her but dont pressure her either. we all need that control over our lives...even in this situation. you havent been together long enough really to be in the best position...good luck and keep us posted...x