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Well that seemed a tad negative antiguru
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Sometimes people don't choose to get in to debt, but are rendered into situations where unfortunatley it's the only option, my bf's mum had a stroke a number of years ago and bf was left to pick up the pieces...
I do understand that he got into debt and it's his own responsibility, however - it was a blip, he has now paid everything off and doesn't owe anyone a penny, yet he has been tarred with this brush.
Any constructive advice would be greatley appriciated.