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He did move out at one point - not over money but over other issues, it was bliss!!! No cleaning up after him, especially when he gets baths, doesnt clean anything. Anyway, His dad let him keep the key and lo and behold he was in everyday once we had gone to work and made his packing up!!!!!! Then came home from work one night and he'd decided that he had moved back in!!!! I was livid, but my partner didnt say anything. I know he is torn between me and his son, but surely I have some say since I pay half of everything, mortage(even though my name isnt on it), gas -electric etc