family advice

[sara552007]

my aunt came to the u.s.a to live with my family since a little more than a year and a half., she came to be a bone marrow donnor for my father, but was not a match, and he passed away in september. i got married about 2 months after my fathers death and me and my husband have a home. however after my fathers death questions and extreme arguments have risen about my fathers will. its definetly making a impact in everyday life because my aunt cant stop talking about it. this is my problem. all she talks about is how horrible my stepmom is and how stupid my father was. and it really upsets me but i say nothing to her. not only that but she is living with me and my husband which is also hard. i have a cousin her and she was supposed to take turns staying at both our houses but she has been at my house for 5 weeks and refuses to go to my cousins house. she told my cousing that my house is more comfortable for her because she doesnt have to climb up stairs and unfortunantly i had a spare room that HAD to be turned into her spare bedroom. she wont give my any free time with my husband she hangs around us constantly even when we go out. i cant even watch tv in my living room cause she is always watching her shows and heaven for bid i should changed the channel on MYYYY TV!!!! i am really to the point of crying from all the frustration. she even redecorates my house and moves things around when i tell her i dont like something in my house she just laughs at me like im stupid and does it anyways. i need advice desperately shes going to give my a nervous breakdown and the things im writing down arent the half of it. how do i get her out of the house without hurting her feelings
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!