I'm very sorry, but as far as the lender is concerned there is a single loan and they look to both or either of you to repay it. On your husband's death the property will pass to you as will the responsibility for the loan repayments. It would be worthwhile contacting the lender as soon as possible to make them aware of the situation. They ARE human. I work for one of the biggest, and we do bend over backwards in genuine cases to keep people in their homes and make what arrangements we can to minimise the hardship. Unfortunately, our first responsibility is to make a profit and pay our investors and shareholders their interest and dividends, so we can't write off debts, much as we'd sometimes like to. What you mustn't do is leave the lender in the dark. Going into arrears without any explanation just means that eventually they'll run up a legal bill which they'll expect you to pay as well.