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langara | 10:43 Mon 05th May 2014 | Family Life
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i need the words to say sorry to my brother-in-law on the loss of his Mum a few days ago. She was in her 90's and had been quite ill for a while and also had dementia. I have written down a few things but most sound a bit pompous or old fashioned,or even condescending. Help needed, Thanks
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Is he religious?

When my dad died a friend put in the card 'Your loss is Gods gain' which I found touching.
"A light from your life has gone but will shine brightest in your memory as time goes on"
Like that ummmm
say what is in your heart. seriously.
I think just say that you're sorry and maybe a few nice memories you have of her? Be careful not to suggest it's a release or similar, just that she'll be missed.
Just tell him you're sorry for his loss, but she's with him all the time now, and now she is in no more pain, and is happy.
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Thinking of you at this very sad time.....
I echo what Pixie has said about the life span of the deceased, it can be hurtful to be on the receiving end of, well they had a good innings, or, it was a happy release. These are left to the bereaved if they want to say them. Although this lady as old and had been ill for a while she was still the world to him, I would imagine ( as mums are ) so a few thoughts of your own , with the offer of a chat when ready would be lovely.

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