no....just because someone breaks their leg does not mean everyone else has to buy them loads of stuff. especially what you are describing! if nothing else, maybe that partly explains why america is getting fatter - especially if she is less mobile, she will need to eat less calories. stuff does not equal love, and neither does what anyone else buys - why should you have to do what others do? if it were my sister and i didn't really like her, or she was mean to me, she would get jack all. simples.