a bit of a problem...

[nannon]

my man is perfect and lovely and satisfies me in every way...esp in the bedroom. The only thing is he finds it hard to stay hard. He gets hard and if i use my hands he ejaculates every time. We have spoken about it and he knows he satisfies me in every other way. He said he has had this problem before with one person - his only other 'serious relationship'. With people who it has been less of a serious r'ship with he is ok. He said that because he loves me he worries he's not going to satisfy me and then loses his errection....i'm not sure what to do or say. for the past couple of weeks i said to him that we''re not goin to have full sex just 'play' to see if he stops putting so much pressure on himself, one night he lept on me and things def worked! But then he came quickly and was stressed all over again!! Any ideas please???

[oldfashioned]

2 elastic bands and a pencil.
sand and cement.
get an au pair girl in.
could he be gay?
viagra?
get him going then send for me.
or grumpy.

[nannon]

i thought that maybe this time of night pwople wouldnt be serious.... no he's not gay and had you read question then you would see he can get it up.... ;o)

[oldfashioned]

just about it would seem. I would suggest taking his mind of it for a while, try a jigsaw.

[Squish]

It sounds like the reason he gave you is def the reason for the problem. I think it may just take time and lots of reassurance from you that he is doing well. Your idea of trying not to put pressure on him sounds good and hopefully after a while he will know he's doing ok and not worry about it. You sort of need to change his way of thinking which is blocking him at the moment.

[nannon]

thanks - i thought it may help i just wanted to check if others agreed with me or had any other ideas...thanks for answering it seriously rather than that user above!!!

[oldfashioned]

******** eh, bet you wish you had one!!!!!!!

[oldfashioned]

Why did they ban nob hed?

[oldfashioned]

Just checking ???????????????????????????????????????????????????????

[nannon]

thank you! Where did the comments go from that horrible oldfashioned last night?! Apologies for my skeptial language last night as well!!