That's uncalled for Docspock, and precisely the reason I stopped using AB. I am also a lone parent, and on benefits after the unfortunate breakdown of my relationship with my 3 yr old's father. Yes, I AM 'living off the State', but I have also worked and paid tax and N.I before this point, and after I have raised my son, sent him off to school and returned to work, I will continue to do so. Your prejudice annoys and disgusts me, Melgor is simply asking a valid question and looking for answers, not looking to have people abuse her for her lifestyle.
And for your information, I'm not writing this whilst chainsmoking, drinking Special Brew and watching Jeremy Kyle whilst my 12 children under the age of 6 run around in dirty nappies, swearing, and I book my third holiday this year. *shakes head sadly*