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Sorry, I forgot to mention the word "nursery" as in [i]"he can't start nursery unitl the beginning of September"[i].
My dad looks after him Mondays and Fridays and he's with the childminder the rest of the week. I suppose, like you say Bednobs, I could place him in a private nursery now before he qualifies for EYF but its going to be very costly. The only other thing I can do is take time off work but that will use up all my leave entitlement for the year. My mum might be able to take some time off work so we could split it where I take 4 lots of Tue/Wed/Thur and my mum does the other 4 weeks worth.
I don't know many other mothers as I placed him with a childminder from the start. She only looks after one other child who is one.