You are entitled to unpaid parental leave, it's 6 years ago since I read about this, but I think it was for up to a year, for either mother or father. If you work for a public service or company you will probably have a few options, temporary reduction in hours or flexible working time. I felt like you after my last child (now 6) I couldn't believe that my health visitor told me to go off sick for 6 months (I work for the NHS and would get full pay) she was surprised I didn't want to do this. To be honest, once I got back to work, everything was great, I dropped my hours (temporarily, which has now turned into term time only working) and I get the best of both worlds, due to flexible working practices. Find out what your company allow. Or take my health visitors advice, however, I think you'd feel bad.