will it get any easier?

[jwmullins1]

I recentley split up with my ex wife, and was allowed to spend half the week with my daughter (aged 5). not long after my ex wife met somebody new and got married and pregnant within the space of 5 months. It was at this point that things went downhill. she stopped all contact with my daughter and when i asked her why i was told that my daughter wasnt really mine. i thought she was bluffing so i took her to court for contact, and decided i wasnt going to have the tests done. My ex wife forced me to have the test done and i turned out she was telling the truth. I am finding it increasingly difficult to switch off being a dad, her bedroom is exactly the same as it was 9 months ago when she last stayed. I know i need to move on with my life but i feel like i am betraying my little girl by doing so. I really need help but i havent got a clue who to turn to, my g.p will prob just throw anti depresents at me . Any advice?

[jwmullins1]

if i thought going to court would get me my daughter back i would do everything i could, but you have no idea what this women is capable of. when i found out she as pregnant we had just split up, she told me on the morning she was booked in for an abortion. I had to fight to stop her from doing it, she then told me that if i ever wanted to see my child grow up i had to take her back. so far my daughter is handleing things really well, she has a good idea of what her mum is like and knows that it is her mum who is stopping her from seeing me. she told me that she will come and find me when she is older and her mum cant stop her. all this from a girl who is only nearly six!.
Again i would like to thank you all for all your kind words and advice. i know i will be ok in time, its just that i have good and bad days. no prizes for guessing what kind of day it was when i posted this!!.

[B00]

jwmullins- I can add anything constructive to the brilliant answers you've already received, I just wanted to add that reading your post brought tear to my eyes.

I genuinely hope that this situation will sort itself out for you and your little girl.

God bless
xxx

[pingu97]

i just want to say i agree with boo n as a mother i am utterly disgusted in this women, who calls herself a mother. My heart goes out to you and i know it's easy to say but u will find peace eventually. best wishes. x