re husdand left
this is to reply i have been to cab, but they could not really help i have a mortgage which is high as we only justed moved, i work so can not get any help and he does not earn enough to pay it, i was going to pay all the bills and not go for maintance but that does not seem possible now,i have a laon in both names on house and loan in both names for windows, i agreed to pay his bills visa his loan which is only in his name, life insuracne that covers the mortgage, but as he has not earnt enough this month, i can't see how he has any money to live himself and pay the mortage loan and windows. we were doing up our house as it was in a state, carpets have already been paid off i just need to pay for the fitting. so i also need money for the repairs that he will not do anymore, its all abit of a mess. he thinks im having ago at him all the time and he is lying to me so much, that im not sure what the truth is anymore.my young daughter is so upset and crying for him so much it breaks my heart, my other daughter has gone so withdrawn, the school has contaced me, all the bills come to 600 without the mortgage loan and windows, thats every day bills, gas is 350 in the red and he has left me to pay it, the house old bills are in my name except the tv and telephone,and i have 4 children to fed and dress. i wish i could understand why he has done all this as i had now clue that there was anything wrong with our marriage he just woke up one saturday and said he is leaving, is the man mad????