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Generally I agree Legend, but my husband actually gets a good deal considering what a **** he is. He sees his son when he wants and more or less when it suits him, the rest of the time he is free to go out and do what he pleases, including shagging his new 17 year old girlfriend, he doesn't have the CSA chasing him, he doesn't have me cutting up all his clothes, he doesn't get the bill for the therapy sessions, he doesn't have toget up with his son at 3am, 4am and 5am - I'd say he has a good deal!
I know that's not always the case though :)