What do you think

[blondie83]

Ok, i just want your opinions on if i'm being petty ect. My parents live abroad (lets say France) so me and my mate just went out there to visit them. (cheap holiday for the both of us) Anyways, to cut a long story short, my mate and i had gone clubbing on our last night, it got to 7am and i was ready to leave, but my mate refused and was determind to stay out so she could sh*ag this bloke we'd met. anyways, so i went home, to my parents, (with the only key) and she stayed out. I told her not to wake my parent up when she waltzed in so she said she'd wait outside til we were up. but she didn't. at 9am she waltzed in, rang the doorbell for my dad to let her in. I know it sounds soooo petty, but i am so angry with her, not only was she so desperate gor a sh*g, she stayed with a random man in a foreign country whilst my mum and dad were at home worrying, AND we had a plane to catch in a few hours. I'm sorry but if it was me and my friends parents house, i wouldn't dream of doing that. I'd have more respect for them, myself and my friend. She must know i'm angry with her cos i barely spoke to her on the way home, she went straight to her sisters and hasn't been home since. Am i just being silly? (please bare in mind that this particular friend will sleep with anything with a pulse, and she was acting so desperate on holiday that it was embassasing).

[roosi]

I think she has acted really selfishly and to be honest I would have more sense / respect for anyone than she had for your parents. ALthough if she was drunk, albeit an excuse, and it's a one off, I think you could probably forgive her. I would fine it hard though, anyone walks over anyone close to me or takes advantage like that and iget up in arms too. I completely understand.

Maybe as a one off you could explain how annoyed you are, and hopefully be able to accept her apology (if indeed she says sorry) and move on? Maybe she is genunly sorry. I would however think twice about taking her to my parents in future though........

[roosi]

I meant albeit it it's NOT an excuse ...... sorry!

[Evilninja]

Whats her phone number ?

[888sally888]

I would find another friend to take away on holiday!! Not acceptable at all.

[Octavius]

A little petty maybe, assuming she is an adult and responsible for her behaviour then isn't she entitled to behave the way she likes?

I know it was your parents place, but did they set any ground rules? Arew you just miffed that she was so free spirted (promiscuous) and demonstrated no shame or embarassment? Thats a little harsh, it seems you are feeling embarassed for her in front of your parents. Maybe you are scared they might think you both do this alll the time.

After all, she was only 2 hours behind you, and I doubt 9am got the neighbours shouting.

[CheekyChops]

Sorry, I agree with Octavius. You must have known what she was like before you went away and 9:00am is hardly waking people up at the crack of dawn, she was only gone for 2 hours as well. So your parents were only worrying from 7:00am-9:00am, they weren't worried that you yourself didn't roll in until 7:00am?

I would have been a bit annoyed probably but I think you are going way over the top.

[blondie83]

Cheeky chops and Octavias , i completely understand what your saying, she has the right to do waht she wants, fair enough, and Raggy roman, believe me, i am not boring, i'm more than up for a bit of fun, but it's the way she acted towards me at the time, it's hard to explain, she's just so desperate all the time and she always puts a random man before her friends, as Octavious said, it was just embarresing that my parents knew what was going on and when she waltzed in she didnt have a care in the world. I havn't said anything to her cos i don't wanna make a big deal out of it, it's not worth it, I know what she's like, (she brings random men she met off the internet to my house - which she shares with me - in the middle of the night) but she's a grown up and can do as she please's. i just think it's very disrepectful to tose around her.

[blondie83]

LOL @ Raggy roman!

[blondie83]

Sorry raggy i though you was saying that you wanted me to leave the key for you under the plant pot!

[tinglepie]

errrr. can I have her number?

[Velvetee]

Your friend is a selfish tart. Turning up like some feral cat, still smelling of sex and scratching on the door in the morning.

She should not only apologise to you, but your parents too. They showed her hospitality, allowing her to stay at their home free of charge and she showed them no respect.

This is the problem with many young people today, no idea of how to behave, no idea of simple etiquette and no concept of good manners.

[Oneeyedvic]

Sorry, but I don't think your parents would have been worried about her (unless you woke them up at 7am and they therefore knew that your friend wasn't with you).

To be honest, as a parent, I would be more worried about my daughter being out until 7am in a foreign country that I would about her friend.

I would guess that at 7am or at 9am that you were both fairly drunk - and therefore she probably forgot that she didn't have a key or your instructions.

Was she wrong? Yes.

Is her behaviour appropriate? No.

Are you a friend? Well, calling her "someone who sleeps with anyone" and " embarrassing" - probably not.

[Myriad2112]

Can't see what the problem is but then I'm a bloke!

[blondie83]

As for saying i'm not a friend, well i have to say, you are wrong. I do so much for all my mates all the time, (and so do my parents) and i never get anything in return, and all i ask for is a bit of respect. Unless you actually know my friend, you would understand exactly where i'm coming from.
(btw my parents were already up when i got home at 7 and wondered why she wasn't with me...)

[Oneeyedvic]

So they were already up at 7am but got disturbed at 9am by her coming in?

[blondie83]

Yeah, i told them to go back to bed.