am i pregnant for sure

[number1wish]

Im 17yrs old and im having problms I havent had my period for two mouths so am i pregnant i really need to know. well my boyfriend left me and mess around wit is ex and see has 3 kids and one on the way and what should i do bout that

[CheekyChops]

Well first of all you need to know if you are definately pregnant. Get a home testing kit or go to the doctors and find out for definate.

[number1wish]

well i been really tierd all the time and i dont feel like doing anything. My nose been running alot i just got over a cold not to long ago. And i did take a test before but it didnt work out right. any when i use the bathroom my pee looks different for some reason every time

[redcrx]

tiredness,runny nose, different coloured pee etc are no way to find out if you are pregnant.

Go to your local chemist or supermarket and buy another test. Read the instructions carefully and take the test again. If you cant manage to do that then go to your GP and aks them to test you.

No point in worrying about it until you know for sure is there

[number1wish]

but the thing is I have to be I havent started my period and i keep track of my periods and i right it down so i know when i do start. and last mouth i didnt start and this mouth i didnt

[redcrx]

if you assume that you have to be then obviously you must be (sarcasm)! so why ask us if you are pregnant? Surely you realise that a test is the only real way of knowing, short of leaving it 40 weeks and seeing if you give birth!

As i said, if you cannot do the test yourself, go to your GP and ask them to test you. It would have said on the test you first took that if your period didnt arrive that its advisable to seek medical advice anyway.

[DivaDebs]

Yes you need to be sensible about this! Taking a test is not difficult - and they will test you for free at the Dr or family health clinic. There could be all sorts of reasons for your period not to have started. You CANNOT rely on symptoms - you need to know for sure.

Your other concerns about your ex boyfriend, his ex girlfriend and all her children are utterly irrelevant. What matters is this potential baby you think you may be carrying.

You must arrange a test. If you have not had a period for 2 months, you may already be 10 weeks pregnant. If you are considering a termintation, you only have about one to two more weeks to do this in. Even if you are not considering a termination, you NEED the facts.

Please let us know how you get on, and please DO tell a parent or guardian. You are very young, and will need support.

[4getmenot]

ER whether the father is a tw@t or not go to docs or even do a home test first, then decide what to do. We cant tell you if you are pregnant or not.

[number1wish]

well im keeping the baby for sure i know its going to hard but i'll make it and is there any more signs that i need to look for

[redcrx]

yes the sign you need to look for is the line on the test that tells you youre pregnant or the doctor telling you so.

Why put yourself through any of the plans for motherhood, its not an easy path, without first finding out if you are pregnant. The lack of a period can be put down to many things, not just pregnancy.

[4getmenot]

signs??? For gawd sake go see a doctor!!!

[4getmenot]

How about this for a sign 'Doctors this way →'

[number1wish]

i took a test in september and i wasnt and last mouth i just didnt start my period and til today i didnt start my period. like i said i keep track of my period

[redcrx]

so the test you took was before or after a missed period? If taken in september it would suggest it was before.

[4getmenot]

then if you do then you are late so this is a sign to go to the doctors, what else do you want us to tell you?

[redcrx]

so date of last period, date of test taken?

[number1wish]

I took it befor my miss period just in case something goes wrong.

[redcrx]

so you didnt read instructions or anything?

Is this a wind-up???

[Pippa68]

Words fail me.

[redcrx]

oh gonna pippa, give her some of your words :)

[Pippa68]

I can't red...that last answer was the last straw!