This is the lists I have been given by my midwife, think most of it has been mentioned already though...... cant see vodka anywhere but nevermind, just pour it in an empty water bottle lol
For mum:
Maternity notes, medication, toiletries, bath towel, night wear, dressing gown, slippers, old/disposable underwear (I agree with red on this one, forget the disposable and take old ones), sanitary towels, breast pads (last time round I actually had to start using these before my daughter was even born!), clock/watch, flannel/sponge.
For labour:
Snacks to eat (chinese sounds good to me lol), something to do (puzzles, books, cards), pen (for menu cards etc) camera and batteries, change for car park and telephone (why thats listed for labour I dont know! lol)
For baby:
Nappies, cotton wool/wipes, scratch mitts, hat, socks, sleepsuits, vests.
Some hospitals require you to take in both bottles and milk whereas some provide both for you so check in advance. Also, get the hospital visiting times to let possible visitors know. Most hospitals wont allow flowers now either due to the risk of infection from stagnant water.
I really should get on with getting my own bags packed! lol