teenage lies

[midcomp]

Hi... How can get my 14 yr old to stop telling lies even though she knows we find out

[daffy654]

Most 20 year old 'men' have the mentality of a 13 year old boy.
My daughter was seeing a 19 year old lad when she was 15, I realised I couldn't stop it without causing major upset to everyone concerned, so I talked to them both about it and made sure my daughter was on the pill. They spent most of their time at my house just watching TV and listening to music anyway. They went on to have 2 children together when my daughter was older, unfortunately they split and my daughter (22 years old now) is bringing up the children on her own.

[joko]

i was seeing a 19 yr old at 15...and actually this is the first time ive ever wondered why my m&d didnt moan about that...my dad was very strict and obsesssed with boys and us - he didnt like the lad, but not because of his age...just because he was a nob...

as said she will find a way if shes determined so you must make sure shes aware of the consequences an that pretty much all lads of that age are after 1 thing only and will move on after they get it etc...make her streetwise...

[chattykathy]

I would speak to the men concerned and threaten to go to the Police if they so much as answer a text from her. They could be 'groomers' for all you know and even if they aren't they could still be put on the sex offenders' list

[ooh-la-la]

does she use make up or hair straighteners? if so take them away along with any sexy clothes. There's no way i'd go out to meet a guy having done nothing to myself.