Does anyone here not get on their sibling?

[FrillyPancake]

As above, I really cant stand one of mine, she is nothing but trouble.......everything she gets involved in she twists round to blame someone else, anyone....she has become so bitter and twisted and all she ever seems to do is try and cause trouble, hassle, bad feeling in the family.....

Rant over!
And discuss ☺

[tonyav]

Has something happened today or yesterday frilly, you sound a bit upset ?

[FrillyPancake]

Hi tony, nothing in particular, she just bugs my happiness!

[NOX]

My brother is a bit of a tool, but my wife and her brother are something else since their father died. My wife is a lovely person but she's sworn she'll hold a street party when he drops dead.Totally un-mendable as a relationship too imho.

[tonyav]

Do you both live in the same house ?

[FrillyPancake]

Yip that's how I feel, over the years not really seen or heard from her. Back in my life for a brief moment recently, and now I know why we didn't see each other before! Lol. She is a spiteful b I am afraid! Hate feeling like this towards her but canna help it. She really has got my goat right up this time........!

[FrillyPancake]

Nope we both live in separate towns and have our own families

[FrillyPancake]

I would ignore but she won't ignore me thats the main issue

[tonyav]

Just do what you were doing before, and keep her at arms length.

[cathfromsaron]

me!

she has been foul and smarmy in equal measure, and now even my parents are alienated!

it's very hard all round!

[FrillyPancake]

Yeah I would but when it comes to family affairs etc I can't do that, I don't soak to my father either and he has her knickers in a complete twist over that aswell, my reasons or not speaking to him are very plain to see too, just she is like a dog with a bone, and keeps trying to mend everything especially between mum and dad and IMHO that's irrepairable too long long long story......

[FrillyPancake]

Speak not soak....lol

[tonyav]

Righto Frilly, sounds complicated.

[FrillyPancake]

Yeah it is..........but very straight forward for me tony , just not for her unfortunately I just don't want to see her. Period. Breaks mums heart too, but I canna help how I feel she just rubs me up the wrong way all the time .......

[tonyav]

Can you not tell her how you feel .

[FrillyPancake]

Afraid if I do that I will totally lose the plot, there is ar far too much stuff gone on o even begin to talk to her. That our main problem, our family never talk about things.........over the years it all built up but now it's too big to even begin talking......

[FrillyPancake]

Sorry guys the iPad is the worst for typos.....lol

[tonyav]

Very difficult, I wish I had an answer for you.

[FrillyPancake]

Thanks tony me too. Just needed to vent a little this morning.my husband is very very supportive of me and can't stand her either for what she has done and said, so at least I have him too. Just don't always want to burden him as well as it all takes it toll eventually and he just wants to ring her to have it out and i don't want that to happen either as it will spoil what I have got with my mum which is quite a close relationship.......

[Sqad]

It is refreshing to hear of a parent who is honest about her sibling..........most parents think that their children are "the best thing since sliced bread."

Me? I get on fabulously with them all, as I only seem them on an annual basis or even less.

Nice to hear an honest parent.

[tonyav]

Well at least you probably feel a bit better now that you have had a small rant.