Relationships

[Coaxum92]

Im new to this don't know what kind of questions are allowed on here. But anyways some advice people Please Hey me and this guy we knew each other for 6 years we liked each other etc etc ..... Things happened he told me constantly to move on and that he didn't like me anymore but he told me this like years ago. i honestly dont know how he feels now every time I ask him if he likes me again he would say I have to continue speaking to you more. He has issues opening up & expressing his emotions. I honestly do think he still likes me cuz of his actions but I want to hear him say it. so i went by what he told me so i started to move on and date now that im doing that when he finds out he gets upset and or just makes his little comments like oh I've been single for 3 years but no you don't like doing what I do and stay single, and when was the last time you had a bf just things like that so I'm like should I continue dating not caring how he feels. Until he expresses his emotions to me on how he really feels or should I not date idk I'm like confused. I been in love with him since I was 15 and I'm 20 now and he's 22 I just moved on cuz he told me he didn't like me anymore and he wanted me to move on 2 or 3 yrs ago but he wont open up i said something recently about me waiting around for him forever and he said what about me? What do you think i've been doing but he laughed it off nowI'm like confused Idk what do you guys think I should do ? Sorry it's long

[Mamyalynne]

He sounds rather controlling, almost like an older brother than a potential love interest. What is he doing with his life ?

My honest opinion is to cut ties and live your life and be fulfilled and happy with someone who cares for you.

[just_George]

some people like the thrill of the chase but become bored when it settles, some like the thought of another person hanging around waiting for them,doing what they want but couldnt do the same in return. Maybe he cant express emotion because he dosen't know how he feels. I wonder if it would do you both good to spend time away from each other, it you try to let go of what you feel for him and date you may realise that over the past 5 yrs your taste has changed. It may also help him understand the way he feels and come to a decision. Set yourself a time 6m or a year, let go and stick with it.