Question For Men

[ludwig]

Would you be flattered if a woman told you she really fancied you and would like to have some no-strings sex but has no intention of a relationship. If you fancied her, would you go for this arrangement? Would you be able to NOT fall for her, and want more from the relationship?!

This is obviously inspired by Scarlett's question below, but I wanted to get the male viewpoint on the same question.

[ludwig]

I'm going to start the ball rolling by saying Yes, I'd be flattered and Yes I'd go for the arrangement.

I can't say I wouldn't fall for her and end up getting hurt, but it's a risk I'd be prepared to take.

[ludwig]

..assume both parties are single by the way.

[snags]

If we were both single and I fancied her, possibly.

[aelmpvw]

i suppose i might be tempted if it was alesha dixon

[snags]

^ 'suppose' and 'might'? Oh please... get in there. Alesha won't hang around waiting for you forever...

[Goodsoulette]

i would be very suspicious Ludwig, from the knowing all to well how women work, they say that stuff all the time, either they're damaged or they're luring you into a relationship. It's nonsense, regular no strings sex does not come without some form of attachment. Tell her your poking someone else that night instead, she fight for your attention then. She'll just always be on the look out for someone richer!

[aelmpvw]

i don't want her to think i'm easy snags

[jim360]

Well, it would be a start...

No. Well I hope not anyway, but who knows until it actually happens to me?

[Octavius]

If we were both single and I fancied her, I would consider it a temporary arrangement and could quite easily remain detached from forming a relationship.

[snags]

aelmpvw... the fact she asked you for 'no-strings sex but has no intention of a relationship' would suggest you being 'easy' won't be too much of a problem.

[snags]

Still 'wary' if she had a crusty french stick in her handbag?

[ummmm]

It can be done, Triggs ;-)

[Reg1900]

There is no such thing as 'no strings', however attractive that might seem.

[Bbbananas]

Otherwise known as a *uck buddy?

Ummm..... Was that an offer ? ;-)

[ludwig]

// Still 'wary' if she had a crusty french stick in her handbag? //

As in, is that a crusty french stick in your handbag or are you just pleased to see me?

[Sqad]

ludwig.........tell me you are bloody joking.