Question For Ladies

[Scarlett]

Would you be flattered if a man told you he really fancied you and would like to have some no-strings sex but has no intention of a relationship. If you fancied him, would you go for this arrangement? Would you be able to NOT fall for him, and want more from the relationship?!

[mrs_overall]

If it was George Clooney - yes
Anyone else coming out with that proposition would be told to go forth and multiply

[China Doll]

No, I wouldn't be flattered and I wouldn't be interested.

[237SJ]

It would make me smile, but I`d probably tell him to bog off.

[VHG]

Yes I am sure most women would love to be told they were fine to have sex with but they were not worth getting to know as a person or forming a long term relationship with.

I am sure that is what most women want to hear....NOT.

[bednobs]

if i was desperate for sex , yes. If i wanted a relationship, no.

[Brinjal]

No not at all.

[ummmm]

-Would you be flattered if a man told you he really fancied you and would like to have some no-strings sex but has no intention of a relationship - NO

-If you fancied him, would you go for this arrangement? - NO

-Would you be able to NOT fall for him, and want more from the relationship?! - Probably not so that's why I said no to the other two.

[daffy654]

Not flattered and not interested.

[biggleswade]

Well, that is a chat up line I will not use. Thank you.

[missnemesis]

No I wouldn't be flattered.
No I would not entertain the thought of entering into this 'arrangement'
Therefore No I would not fall for him or want more.

[biggleswade]

I forgot to add I look like George Clooney. Almost his complete double you might say.

[ladyalex]

No and No.
Nothing morre to be said, really.

[aelmpvw]

i look like wayne rooney if that's close enough

[Traci66]

Flattered that he said he wanted sex and nothing more from me, definitely not.

[Bbbananas]

I'd tell him to do one - himself.

[ludwig]

The lesson here for men is to avoid honesty if you want to get laid.

[grasscarp]

I would tell them to get lost. It sounds like he is looking for a prostitute but without paying the fee.

[Bbbananas]

I might change my tune if it was Johnny Depp asking...

[2sp_]

At the risk of getting shot down, I'm going to give you my honest answer...

I've been in this situation. Back in my early 20s I had a very good male friend who I would occasionally sleep with. Only if we were both single though. We were never boyfriend/girlfriend and were both happy with our little arrangement. (I was anyway and I don't remember him complaining!)

We just kind of stopped at some point. He is now in a very happy relationship, and I have my lovely Mr P. We are still friends, at least on FB as we are at opposite ends of the country now.

I think it can work, but there is a huge danger that one person may develop deeper feelings. I think it worked for me as I was just getting over a relationship and really didn't want another one.

[grasscarp]

I think the modern term is friends with benefits.