Dead Brother

[jennyjoan]

Is it unusual for me to cry for the aboved - when he was really a sometimes a pig. Now on his death I am finding reasons why he was such a sad sucker.

He bore 5 beautiful sons unlike himself altho they loved him - but to night I am crying for him. I am surprised at myself at crying - but I am - sorry. for the enigma.

[Zacs-Master]

Not at all unusual. He was a member of your family.

[Mamyalynne]

You are bound to feel like this - whilst he was alive and being difficult that dominated your thoughts of him.

Now you have the time to think more about his other qualities.

Give yourself time to grieve.

[anneasquith]

it's simple conne, although he was difficult when he was ill, he was your brother, he must have been a good person to have such beautiful sons, crying is good and normal for you now.

[Old_Geezer]

Not such an enigma. Maybe one can be more objective when considering someone when not having to cope with how you clashed. And the loss of a close family member is sad in itself anyway.

In any case, you feel what you feel, there is no one qualified to say that should not be so.