Confuseing/weird Problems

[Elisaaa]

So what if you live in a place that you hate?:(
And you do not have any way to change your home ..or to move somewhere els?...
I can not used to live here AT ALL..and its been a while.like....few years..

[kvalidir]

Work out what you hate about it and then try to minimise the impact of that. You don't say why you can't move or what your situation is, but if I HATED somewhere I wouldn't be living there no matter what.

[Tilly2]

Why do you hate it so much?

[fiction-factory]

Some background info here, Tilly.
https://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Family/Question1596019.html
Elisaaa is only 22 and seems to be very unhappy with other aspects of her direction in life so this may result from that

[Elisaaa]

Well its true that im so unhapy and depressed im not gonna deny..but...
Hating here so much.was a problem that i always had...:(..i sometimes think this problem was effective... made me depressed...

[kvalidir]

where do you live and why do you hate it, is it the place, the people you live with or the outside area?

[cassa333]

Why can't you move? What are the barriers to moving?

You are only 22 so should have some level of independence.

[Tilly2]

Thank you for that, FF.

What do you hate about where you live?

[dannyk13]

Where is it that you hate living there?

[Elisaaa]

Well.its so quiet..and is located in a countryside....
Usually old people live here..you rarely can find young people...
I feel like depression has afected all..people are angry and sad...you can not find a friend..people prefer lonliness:(..

[fiction-factory]

Do you rent or own? Or are you living with family?

[Elisaaa]

Does it matter that if i rent or who am i liveing with?i alredy mentioned i CAN NOT leave here:(
Unfortunetaly...really unfortunetaly

[kvalidir]

Yes but unless we understand WHY you 'cannot' leave somewhere we can't advise you so it's pointless you asking. CANNOT is a huge word and rarely applicable to most situations tbh, for sure if you leave there might be repercussions or consequences but unless someone is holding you prisoner and has you physically chained up of course you can leave, you might have just weighed it up and decided against it.

[Tilly2]

Why can't you leave?

[Elisaaa]

OKAY ..imagine that someone is holding me prisoner..and i can not leave....
Do you have any idea now?..what could you do in this situation if you were me..??

[Tilly2]

Escape.

[fiction-factory]

I'd probably ring the police or seek help from someone I trust if there was no way I could escape

[dannyk13]

I think we need to know in more detail why you cannot leave.

[DarceyK123]

If it's an abusive partner then you must find the strength to leave right now, you're young, it will only get worse the longer you leave it?

[fiction-factory]

I got the impression from the previous thread that the OP is suffering from some form of mental health issues (paranoia was mentioned) and fears of meeting people, so maybe it is that that is holding her prisoner

[Mamyalynne]

If you are being held against your will, contact help - the same way you are talking to us.

Much as we want to assist on the little information we have all we can do is offer platitudes.