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abbeylee90 | 13:50 Tue 03rd Oct 2023 | Family & Relationships
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To this date met this guy online part of me is unsure 

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Canary may have put it fairly directly - but he's right.  Get out and meet people - do things that you like and see who also likes them: could be deep-sea diving (unlikely) or whatever you like to do.  Moere likely to meet someone with whom you have something in common.T.B.H. Using an online dating site smacks of desperation to me.  I met my first husband at...
20:14 Tue 03rd Oct 2023

More details, please, Abbey.

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This guy I'm speaking to wants to met up and go on a date I met him online and i just wondered if I should attended the date 

Is this what your pub visit is tonight?What part of you is unsure?

Go.

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Just meeting him

I really meant more details about him  .. what you know, age, etc.

Is he on a dating app?

If you go...tell someone the time and place. Make sure they can contact you if necessary. 

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Yeah so he is 27 lives with parents and works Monday to Friday 

Good advice from Pasta.....

and don't leave your drink unattended 

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Thanks, Abbey. I remember you were in this sort of predicament before and were given much advice then.  Why don't you just go - seeing is believing.  He might just be Mr. Right.

Abbey, we can't decide your life for you.

 

Only you know if you're interested enough to bother going. 

How long have you been talking to him - and what's giving you doubts?

Take a friend with you. If if you do go, have a friend to call you making out it is an emergency so you can make a getaway!!

Is he driving his car to the pub or using a bus ?

Just tell him you'd like to chat some more online and get to know him better before meeting. How much do you know about him already, for example do you share the same interests, have a similar sense of humour etc?

How long have you been chatting on line. What do you know about him re interests and family. Does he have siblings.

Arrange for a friend to call you at a certain time and have a code word for "all is ok" and one for "help"

She can chat all she wants to online but she will never 'know' what he is really like - he could be feeding her a load of lies.

The only way forward is to meet him and if you do want to see him again, get to know him and his family slowly.  

Send the part of you that is sure and see how it goes.

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