Would This Be Weird?

[abbeylee90]

This guy from my voluntary work asked me to go to the pub with him and his mate I don't if it weird sitting with 2 old men or be awkward. I know this may seem strange asking this. 

[piggynose]

2s company, 3s a crowd!

[douglas9401]

2s compny, 3s a fantasy come true.

[cashier]

What does your mum think of it?

[scorpiojo]

Strange after you said this: 

 

//I appreciate he being kind giving me lifts and going for lunch but he does my head in grabbing me to do it all the time as I'm leaving where I know him from I got things I need to do myself feel like he obsessed with me//

[Floko]

I feel he may be a bit besotted with you. Didn't someone who had known him for 20 years say he was a pig . You have no idea who his mate is or what he is like in character. I would decline 

 

[abbeylee90]

Neva and floko yes that's it and he never asked so guess he got the message I don't go with 2 of them 

[barry1010]

He makes you feel uncomfortable, he may think you two are forming a relationship.

It is cruel to keep giving him hope and it is foolish to keep seeing a man who you feel uncomfortable with 

[abbeylee90]

He's not looking for a relationship he's 60+ and I'm 31

[cashier]

How do you know he isn't looking for a relationship? He takes you out for lunch, and you go,sounds like he thinks he has one.

[Hazlinny]

You know what they say Abbey ..  there's many a good tune played on an old fiddle.🤣

[cashier]

You could take him to your Beaujolais Day.

[abbeylee90]

I don't know why he to old 

[cashier]

He might not think he is, especially if you have been telling him how hard it is to find a boyfriend.

[abbeylee90]

I didn't tell him it hard to find a boyfriend 

[Cloverjo]

There is 26 years between me and Husband. It started out as just us going out to do things we both enjoyed. It's fine 
 

I say, go out for a drink and whatever with the man/men, but don't expect the relationship to last or you'll be wiping his bum sooner than you might think. 

[abbeylee90]

I don't want to get into a relationship with him not even attractive 

[TheWinner]

Then don't go.

[barry1010]

You are very naive if you think a 60 year is past wanting a relationship with a younger woman.

It's not as if you are a schoolgirl, you are not out of bounds for a man of any age.

Men don't stop finding younger women attractive and they don't stop hoping

[barry1010]

My wife is 18 years younger than me and she was in her early 20s when we met

[Countrylover]

Whats wrong with a couple of friends who obviously love dogs and volunteer together  going for a drink.  Abbi is 30  not that young.  60 is  not old.  Age doesn't matter.  If you want to go then do so Abbi.  If you're uncomfortable with it then make a polite excuse.  It shouldnt matter what your Mother or anybody else thinks.