Do I Meet Him?

[abbeylee90]

This guy was om about meeting up with meet up with me tomorrow he wanted to go cinema I said as I haven't met him we don't know if it will work then today he showed a rude pic so not sure what he is in for 

[naomi24]

No.  If he's showing you rude pictures if you've got any sense you won't want to know what he's in for.  Steer well clear.

[youngmafbog]

For goodness aske, do you really have to ask?

Run a mile.

[Neveracrossword]

He showed a rude picture and you're 'not sure what he is in for'? Run a mile!

[pastafreak]

More than a mile...ick!

[Hazlinny]

Is this the same guy who contacted you previously re going to the cinema? I wouldn't bother with him...refuse.

[barry1010]

I hope you made your disgust very clear, Abbey - nobody should be showing you rude pics.  My wife would have slapped him

[Redhelen72]

Goodness you even have to ask that question?

[elliemay1]

How did he get in contact with you in the first place, was it on line?

[elliemay1]

^ you say that you 'haven't met him'

[abbeylee90]

Yes on dating app and no different guy

[elliemay1]

And what does your gut feeling tell you to do?

[pastafreak]

I assume Abbey has not met him in person.

Don't Abbey...just don't. You'd have all the AB mums and dads worrying about you.

[abbeylee90]

Don't meet him I guess ellie 

[andy-hughes]

abbey - // Don't meet him I guess ellie //

If you have to 'guess', maybe you shouldn't be looking for attention on dating sites.

[melv16]

My daughter went out with a very strange guy and she soon got rid of him after a couple of dates. He then started stalking her for a while until he got another girlfriend. She dumped him and he ended up murdering her!

Don't entertain this weirdo!

There for the grace of God......

[bednobs]

it is not in the slightest bit strange for young people to send/receive dikpiks, nor is it a stretch that people on dating sites are doing it to meet people to hook up with rather than date.  Especially with something like tinder

[Floko]

I am shocked that you have to ask !  Block him !

[elliemay1]

I'm glad, abbey, that your gut is telling you not to meet him, please act on that. I would stop all contact with him immediately or next he'll be asking you to reciprocate with nude pics. 

[pastafreak]

It may not be strange for some, bednobs. But I'd still tell any young woman to run a mile if she's not into that sort of thing. Makes my skin crawl tbh. 

[bednobs]

pasta, i agree, but then again i am 50 and not dating.