News1 min ago
Am I Just A Terrible Human?
So I'm a guy aged 38 and have been in a relationship with my girlfriend who is 28 for 5 years. Lately I've been seeing 2 girls aged 20 and 19 from my work, 1 girl who is 18 that used to work at my job and another girl who is 25 who has just started. I can't pick one. And none know about eqch other yet they have all met each other. I am mentally and physically drained. What should I do?
You could start by being loyal to one at a time? You've obviously realised that there are reasons for being monogamous.
You have to decide which lady you wish to 'date'. What do you look for?
At 38 it is more than time that you either decided that casual relationships are 'you' and abandon ideas of 'relationships' - or give up 'playing the field' and cheating on your long-term girlfriend.
At the moment, yes, you are not behaving like a great human being. You can amend this.
You (a boy)'ve got a long term relationship with a female friend (a girl), and now you have found 4 'girls' who you like (?) and none of them know that you fancy other 'girls', and you can't 'pick' one (i.e. you can't choose which one to favour with your divine presence?)
Why are you here asking your question? You could start by trying to become human and relating to other humans in a human way.
Of course, you could instead try to seduce me and add another poor girl to your harem.
What's wrong with the unfortunate 28-year-old that she no longer appeals - you really should tell her (as gently as possible) that you've been cheating on her - she deserves at least that after a 5-year relationship.
In fact, you would be well-advised to start thinking about other peoples feelings for a change.
While I don't generally get bothered by age differences....but...3 girls all in the 18-20 year range. Why...so young? Are they at the same level of maturity as you? And if they are not...why?
Whatever the reason, it's not very clever to be stringing along so many people. It will catch up with you. And it won't be very nice.