Do I Keep It From The Man That I'm Going To Dogs Home Tomorrow?

[abbeylee90]

I'm going to dogs home tomorrow. This man I been on about messaged me saying he walked out this morning as the boss had a go at him for not wearing thier hi vi's with emblem on the back he thinks he is above that. He said today might be his last day walking a dog even tho he didn't walk any today 

[scorpiojo]

Does your mum know about the lunches and dinner? The invites to a concert/zoo/out with him and a friend or friends? Does she know you accepted the watch?

[Canary42]

///How can people who know nothing about him call him creepy, slimy, etc.///

Asking her about sex positions is IMHO creepy.  Sorry if that's upsetting, but I am as entitled to my opinion as you are yours.

[newmodarmy]

That's a different man, canary42

[scorpiojo]

It's a different man, canary.

[Canary42]

Ooops, sorry. My bad.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, you told us months ago that you found the man creepy - then you asked us this week if you should go out for a drink with him and his pals... oh, and you also went out to dinner with him. I know you said someone said he might think of you as the daughter he'd never had - surely that one remark wasn't enough to wipe out all the feelings of unease you'd had? 

[Canary42]

Ignore my earlier comments please Abbey, as you can see I was labouring under a misapprehension.

[abbeylee90]

My mum knows about lunch this week but not about the rest 

[Moorea7]

You're up early, Abbey! Are you helping Mum after her op?  When do you go to the kennels?

[Smowball]

Abbey - just block this man on your phone so that he can't keep messaging you.

[scorpiojo]

Then I think you should tell your mum the rest of it, Abbey, so that she can see both sides.

[abbeylee90]

Been down and he wasn't down there

[Floko]

Hope you had a good walk. 🙋‍♂️

[abbeylee90]

Yep he wasn't down as he in a strop coz he don't want to wear thier hi vis

[abbeylee90]

My mum said be careful he will think I'm keen

[Canary42]

Well said Mum  -  listen to her advice Abbey.

[abbeylee90]

So best he not there and I didn't tell him today 

[barry1010]

We've been telling you that accepting lifts, meals, drinks and gifts from him is encouraging him, leading him on and is unfair to him and uncomfortable for you. You didn't listen to us but hopefully you will take notice of your mum. 

[hellywelly4]

How is your mum getting on after her knee op?

[scorpiojo]

Maybe you should tell your mum the truth, Abbey, then she may see things differently.