Do You Think He Has Gone Off Me?

[abbeylee90]

I said I'd make a new thread earlier so like I explained in my other one. This guy I went on a date with 2 weeks ago and as I explained he said he wanted a 2nd we were meant to go out last Friday but he cancelled as he has a cold. He said on Sunday he would let me know if he wants to go out this week but said yesterday he has a cold but also hasn't been messaging me in the morning like he normally would 

[abbeylee90]

Thanks Andy just a shame he suggested another date if it really is the case

[pastafreak]

Iirc, is this the young man who has a rare condition...one that might mean he needs to be careful regarding infections and such?

Under those circumstances, maybe its best that he doesn't make plans unless he's completely well.

[pastafreak]

He wasn't sick when he suggested another date...

[abbeylee90]

No he wasnt

[abbeylee90]

If he don't make an attempt to go on a date next week do I say? "Are we going on a 2nd date if not no point staying in conact"

[Redhelen72]

Yes pasta that is the one with a very rare condition - only 8 people in the UK have it 

[Prudie]

I would like you to answer one question honestly, I think everyone deserves to know a little of the truth - Abbey did you really get a Grade A in English language GCSE?

[Redhelen72]

Oh my mistake but still so very rare its surprising

[abbeylee90]

That was years ago when i left school and I'm asking if he would go off with me if he not already if I say that 

[naomi24]

Abbey, don't put your life on hold waiting for him to decide what he wants.  Just get on with your life.  Go out with your friends and other men if you want to - and if he suggests another date play it by ear at the time.  If you're free and would like to go, go - if you're not free or don't want to go, don't.  If he just wants a casual relationship, that's fine.  You do the same.

[Prudie]

So you did get an A? and because it was years ago you have forgotten that it's he doesn't and not he don't???

Before you all jump on me this is not a petty grammar police point - this is trying to find out a tiny bit of the truth. I cannot believe anyone who got an A in English would say he don't (or can't spell colleague and Beaujolais after 10 attempts with probably a spellchecker to help, especially as we assume nearly all these posts are from a phone).

[Canary42]

Why do folk attack Abbey ?

 

Cyber-bullies.

 

 

 

[Barsel]

You have given BA to emeritus because he said 'Agreed TTT' and yet that post from TTT has been removed so we can't see what it says, but I wouldn't have thought it was very nice if it's been removed.

[Prudie]

Canary perhaps if you'd joined in and helped abbey on the 1000s of posts she's put instead over of a couple flag waving your kindness comments you've made only recently you may actually understand where some of us are coming from.

Currently you clearly don't.

[abbeylee90]

Hasn't read my Snapchat which I sent last night 

[Hazlinny]

For goodness sake, Abbey, move on - you're 30 something not a teenager!

[Redhelen72]

The BA is a bit of an insult to those of us that have continualy offered solutions provided links and told you what to say for the last 10 months and beyond.