Do I Go On This Date Saturday?

[abbeylee90]

I've been asked to go on a date Saturday but not sure this guy looks abit scrawny and really also asked do I want to go pub or clubbing but said last week he driving so don't understand 

[newmodarmy]

I think douglas may have just been joking about what he'd said ( to go pub, he driving)...but maybe I'wrong ng

[newmodarmy]

I think douglas may have just been joking about what he'd said ( to go pub, he driving)...but maybe I'm wrong

[andy-hughes]

It's just a date.

If it doesn't work out, you don't have to see him again.

A little practice in socialising is a good thing.

Try not to over-think it in advance, just relax and see how things go.

 

[naomi24]

Abbey, if you don't fancy him just tell him you've decided not to meet him.  You'll stop worrying about it then.  

[newmodarmy]

Yes, nothing to lose apart from maybe £30, and you might be surprised at how well you get on. But how fara way does he live- can you expect him always to come to you ? 

[MargoTester]

Have you heard the saying don't judge a book by its cover, he may have a wonderful personality.

[smurfchops]

"He's not Jamaican and just about".  What does that mean?

[newmodarmy]

Just about started to repay her mum.

Translating abbey's posts is an acquired skill

[newmodarmy]

Abbey often answers 2 questions in one short sentence with missing pulsation, verbs and pronouns. The phrase I think is 'a stream of consciousness'

The jamaican reference was to Douglas's joke

[newmodarmy]

^Punctuation  not pulsation !

[Redhelen72]

If you don't fancy him - why agree to a date.

Cancel it now and not tomorrow that's just rude!

[barry1010]

Am I the only one that doesn't get Douglas's joke?

[lankeela]

No Barry, and Douglas thinks he is being clever but really he isn't.  

[Barsel]

No Barry, I don't get the reference either.

[newmodarmy]

okay, so you dithered today and then called it off. Good- better late than never. But why did you blame the weather/feeling tired? Surely you should tell him he's just not what youre looking for- you said a few days ago he was too scrawny for you.

Maybe on your POF profile you should specify minimum heights (given one was too short for you) and weights/BMI (as this one was too scrawny)- it would save a lot of time, dithering and disappointment