Why Could I Be Struggling To Get A Boyfriend?

abbeylee90 | 16:37 Sun 03rd Mar 2024 | Family & Relationships

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I know this might sound abit needy but feel like guys don't like me they speak to me on dating apps but seems they on it for a laugh as don't ask for a date. I know years ago it my fault I went on few dates and covid got in the way but made no effort ever since my luck with guys been going wrong.

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Hazlinny

How do you know, Abbey? What gives you that impression?

abbeylee90

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I leave them alone if they reject or don't message first

jourdain2

I keep telling you, Abbey, but you don't listen - far less do you act on advice. Sort your life out regarding a job and that will give you some self-esteem. Do things you want to do - not what your friends want (which seems to comprise going out for bottomless brunches) and develop your own interests. Stop chasing men in other words. Ignore them. Do what you want.

Be yourself, develop your own life and you will be a more interesting person......... this will attract more interesting men in time, but the important thing is that you will have a better life. I'm getting tired of telling you this.

pastafreak

Maybe guys want a girl who's confident...and who does call them. Or one with a sense of humour and a bit of silliness.

I too think you really need to meet someone in person...and give yourself time to get to know a person. Not everyone comes across as Mr perfect relationship material from the start.

abbeylee90

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All is go to bed early latley

abbeylee90

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Jordauin do you mean if I don't have a socail life?

wolf63

I think that jourdain means that you should get the rest of your life sorted and forget about your social life for now. Forget about finding a man.

You need to get a job that you are capable of doing. If you find the right job you will meet new people and gain experience.

You also need to stay in that job even if you are not enjoying it. You need to be reliable and keen to learn and to work hard.

What about going to college? Learn new skills whilst mixing with people?

Countrylover

College would be a good idea even part time. Get some advice from your local jobcentre. You do need to improve your communication and confidence skills. It would help you a lot and you would meet some new people too. Forget about getting a boyfriend for now and don't go on dating sites!

abbeylee90

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And study what in college?

Countrylover

Whatever they suggest that might appeal to you. Perhaps in the catering industry, retail? You need to get some new skills. Perhaps some new computer skills. How about becoming a post lady. My young friend (your age) has a degree in textiles, but loves her job as a postie and it pays well.

abbeylee90

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I've worked in the catering and retail sector. Something I may enjoy

Countrylover

Being single isn't a bad thing.

Countrylover

You could find yourself a job perhaps in a clothing store. The main thing is to improve your confidence and communication skills and spend less time on here. You hsvevbeen given so much help now you have to take our advice. Stop dithering!