What Do I Do Abour This Guy?

[abbeylee90]

Last week I went on a date with a guy I met on the Internet he very confident and has a big personality but what I don't like is beard and eyebrow piercing he wants to meet up this week before he goes away but I'm not sure what should I do?

[pastafreak]

What...delete him before he's back? That's a bit rude. At least speak to him.

He may have feelings, and it's only the polite thing to do. Don't be mean.

[abbeylee90]

I'll have to do something not keep making excuses as me and the guy I went out with Saturday are more suited I feel 

[barry1010]

I drummed in to all my children, whatever you do, do it kindly.

Be honest, Abbey.  Tell him he's a nice chap but the spark is missing.  Wish him well.

[abbeylee90]

The other guy with beard and piercing has asked when am I free next 

[Clementino]

Give the bearded guy one more chance (at Treetops?)

and see if a spark appears in a more interactive situation. The guy at Botanist has not yet asked for another date has he ?

[abbeylee90]

Yes he had for tonight 

[abbeylee90]

Do I message the guy I'm meant to be out with tonight if I don't hear from him or just let him message me?

[abbeylee90]

The one I like think I should say if we not going to meet up don't bother talking?