What Do I Do Abour This Guy?

[abbeylee90]

Last week I went on a date with a guy I met on the Internet he very confident and has a big personality but what I don't like is beard and eyebrow piercing he wants to meet up this week before he goes away but I'm not sure what should I do?

[LadyCG]

What are his good points?

[Prudie]

Before he goes away where for how long?

[davebro3]

depends if he gets time off for good behaviour😂

[abbeylee90]

10 days and his personality 

[abbeylee90]

Dave what do you mean?

[Rosetta]

A beard and eyebrow piercing are both very superficial, its his personality that should count the most

[LadyCG]

I meant is he solvent, does he have his own home and car.  More importantly, are you attracted to him and is he nice deep down? Is he looking to commit?

[naomi24]

Only you can decide if you can overlook the beard, abbey, but take it slowly.  One date is not enough to think of him as a potential life partner.  Just enjoy his company for now.

[Barsel]

Don't suppose it would occur to you that there may be things he doesn't like about you.

[Redhelen72]

What is his personality like? 
do you enjoy his company?

does he have a job?

why not just enjoy his company?

[LadyCG]

Abbey, my first date with my husband was a disaster. At one point I went to the ladies and let out a big sigh and thought to myself this is the worst date I've ever been on purely because conversation was quite strained. I really thought he didn't want to be there but it later became apparent that he was incredibly nervous.  I'd been on quite a few internet dates but I was the one and only internet date he'd ever been on. I drove home thinking there's 2 hours of my life I'll never get back and I'll never be seeing him again.  20 months later we were married with a baby on the way and he turned out to be the love of my life.

 

[abbeylee90]

He's confident. Yes he has a car and his own place.

It hard to tell yet but seems nice 

[newmodarmy]

If you're not sure and feel the need to ask strangers then forget him. Or have a second date and then make up your mind yourself.

[naomi24]

Barsel, he likes abbey well enough to ask her on a second date. 

[fruitsalad]

Surely personality counts the most, in this age of 'perfection' give me personality over looks anytime.

[elliemay1]

Abbey, it's hard to tell after just one date so meet him again, what have you got to lose? If you don't, then you'll always be wondering what might have been

[abbeylee90]

Just not this Wednesday at 7pm when I got work next day 

[Moorea7]

Abbey, he will probably have work the next day too so no extremely late night?  Does he live locally?  You sometimes don't have much confidence so maybe this guy is just what you need.  It takes time to know someone so go on a second date and maybe a third etc. etc.

[newmodarmy]

Just go for a coffee again, an hour maybe.  You'll then have a better idea of whether he's what you're looking for in a guy.

[cashier]

Just go for two hours or so, no need to stay out late.