Is It Wrong That Me And My Work Colleuge Held Hands When Walking To The Pub Together He's Married

[abbeylee90]

We are very good friends but meant nothing to me. It was his leaving do I messaged him after I got home to make sure he got home ok.

[DDIL]

Oh my goodness did he take advantage of you?

[Canary42]

Were any others holding hands in case they got lost ?

[DDIL]

😂

[abbeylee90]

No he didn't take advantage.

[Smowball]

Agree with Auntypoll and everyone else.

if I found out that my husband walked to a works do(or any do) holding another woman's hand I would cut his goolies off! 
Stop being an idiot Abbey! He's a married man! 

[abbeylee90]

No apart from the husband and wife.

[abbeylee90]

We are just friends will forget about it now as we said won't happen again.

Anyway thought I seen my friend who has a partner and her friend who's married kissing but oh well none of my business.

[DDIL]

Yeah of course you did, are you trying detraction now?

[abbeylee90]

Well I think I did anyway 

[Smowball]

DDIL - think we are all starting to think the same thing now........ 

[Prudie]

"we said won't happen again" does that mean the two of you discussed the hand holding? That makes it even worse. 

[abbeylee90]

No I haven't discussed anything with him.

[Smowball]

'My wife doesn't let me out, and btw shall we hold hands incase we get lost....'......... 🤣

[abbeylee90]

Auntypol incase someone else leaves and he comes such as mine.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, I too am curious - how and when did you get on to discussing whether it should 'happen again'? 

[naomi24]

Auntypoll 20.24.  You asked me 'what's your option Naomi?'  
 

I'd opt not to hold hands with a married man - unless he was my dad.  

 

Abbey, if you didn't know it was wrong you wouldn't be asking.