Back in the day, a sort of deal was struck up in that women would provide their man with sex, emotional support, love and domestic stuff in exchange for warmth, food shelter and security. Since women have started paying their own way, that deal is off. Women have as much right to come and go as men do, have their own life and friends etc. Sorry to burst your bubble but unless you want to support a woman 100% and shes happy with living her life for you, your kinda backing a losing horse