Going back?

[Rubyrose]

Since me and my ex broke up a year an a half ago I have reconnected with a lot of friends I lost touch with whilst I was with him! Not for any major reason did we lose touch, just that I was with my ex so spent most of my time with him. I mostly lost touch with my male mates though.

But in the last year I have become good mates again with some of them and 3 in particular that I used to have MAJOR crushes on before my ex. I have reconnected with all 3 of them and ended up 'getting' with two of them! Although once we 'hooked up' we kind of lost touch again. I don't really want to call or text them as it seems like its done with now.

Do you think it was just infinished business that needed to be sorted but never did coz I was with my ex at the time? I was with him 5yrs! I have now lost all feeling of the crushes I used to have for these 2 when I was about 14-15. Now the 3rd one has come along and we have got all flirty again and stuff and I feel like I did when I fancied him as a kid but this time I don't want to mess it up. I'm not saying anything will happen but it would be nice just to have him back as a friend... even though we are getting a bit flirty and it is nice and we used to be all flirty back then but nothing happened. Just seems that now we are more grown up and the flirty is even more intense and serious!

Should you ever go back? Or are crushes best left behind you as crushes?

[dot.hawkes]

Does theee mean you is courting or stepping out? tut

[Rubyrose]

I don't get it! :oS

[dot.hawkes]

well, if you are courting, you are serious, but if you are 'stepping out' it is quite early in the relationship, tut, catch a grip woman lol

[Rubyrose]

I still don't get it! We aren't doing anything... there is no relationship.... we are just mates who are flirting a lot and I feel like I did when I was mates with him years ago but unlike the two before I don't want to mess it up and hook up with him and then it all be over and lose this 'crush' feeling!

[Rubyrose]

Oh my god! Is it me or am I just not understanding a word you are saying Dot? Lol

[Skreecheeboy]

I think you should fire in, better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

[Rubyrose]

Thanks Schreeech.... I must say we have been emailing for the past 3 days and he has mentioned meeting up! :o)