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[Starquality]

Has anyone seen my ex? He walked out on me and our business and is currently abroad with some woman he met on the internet. Her name's Mrs Jill Wild. Anyone come across him as he owes me thousands.

[4getmenot]

yes I think if so many people report it then the button goes while they decide what to do with question

[Starquality]

Well I could not make this up if I tried and what is the problem? Too many people like to stick their heads in the sand and pretend that this kind of thing does not go on. I am not one of them. I will not be treated with such disrespect from both of these jokers and they will learn that I will not be crossed either. so those of you who don't like my statements - go off and respond to some questions about animals or cars. don't bother responding to mine.

[johnlambert]

Maybe I got this whole Answerbank thing wrong!! there I was thinking it was a site where if someone posted a question then they would get an answer.
If you don't like what others have got to say then don't post peoples real names. I was going to ask how would you feel if someone knew where your ex and his new parner were and attacked them because of what they sawe on this site, but I think I know the answer.
If you have issues you should address them in the proper manner, to post anyone's reall name on here is responsible in the extreme!!!

[Pirate1]

I hope someone DOES know where your ex is..... points out this question to him........ and he sues you!

[4getmenot]

so that would be the ED that doesnt agree READ THE RULES!! No names are to be mentioned!! Also no capitals, woops. lol

[Pirate1]

because now that you've put his real name, someone might! See? It works both ways doesn't it?

[Pirate1]

Sorry! Forgot about capitals. *slaps wrists* Wont do it again.

[monkeyeyes]

What's your name ?

That way if I ever bump into a chap who tells me a tale about having left a relationship, etc. etc. involving stables and such, I'll know who he's talking about.

[Starquality]

Mission accomplished. I posted a question - I got a number of responses. So thanks everyone. It is great to see that everyone is entitled to their own opinion and everyone has the right to state it.

I now feel that I have discharged a great deal of pent up emotion and anger and can return to my 'cunning plan'.

[4getmenot]

Ok

[mycats]

"her a gold digger who has forced him to walk out of here "

OMG if you had explained before that this woman had FORCED him to leave you... did she tie him up? threaten him??

good God - I've only read what you have posted here and I want to leave you

[4getmenot]

stuck in the stables, what what what...

[Starquality]

Actually 'my cats' she did. Told him that if he came back here, she would end the relationship with him. He worked away during the week and ran the place with me at weekends. So in a way she did tie him up - actually she had him by the bits and he being the weak fool he is, went along with her demands.

[4getmenot]

No one can be forced into anything

[Starquality]

Oh 4getmenot, how naive are you? People can be 'forced' into making decisions when given an ultimatum and he was certainly given that. Weak fools are easily led.

[4getmenot]

Dont be pathetic, seems like you are making up excuses for him and she forced him into it and he did nothing wrong, Have some dignity for christ sake, he's left you get over it

[johnlambert]

Well she was obviously giving him something you were not!!!

[Starquality]

Oh don't worry - I am. The last thing that I am is pathetic. I am very shrewd and know exactly what I am doing. anyway - don't want to be bored by all of this anymore. It was only to relieve a boring afternoon. Byeeee

[monkeyeyes]

SHE may have behaved in a despicable manner...........but you can't break a relationship that isn't already cracked !!
Try and set aside the very real hatred you feel for HER and apportion the blame exactly where it belongs................HIM.

He obviously 'played away from home', then got in over his head (both of them!) and ended up capitulating to HER demands.

Rather than concentrating on the evil, scheming bitch, as you see her, put all of your energies into sorting out the situation with him. Try and keep a cool, clear head........revenge is a dish best served cold.

Don't worry, SHE won't keep her charms forever.........and he may come to realise just what he has done, and what he is missing.

Being bitter, whilst understandable, won't actually help OR make you feel better in the long run.

[redcrx]

he has to take responsibility for his own actions, you cant blame everything on the other woman.
Perhaps youre not entirely blameless either, but only you and he know that