Help!!

[glitzybabe]

I'm 18 nd ma mums just moved away for good, one of ma sis is away at da mo, nd its just me ma dad nd ma elder sister, but i have to do everything in da house nd its wearin me out wot can i do?!? i dont seem 2 fit in nemore.

[4getmenot]

maybe they just dont understand you

[leewayne]

Welcome to adulthood,your mum and dad cant do it forever

[glitzybabe]

ma parents r still married ma mum just doesnt lyk it where we r living and has moved bak in wiv her parents, which is lyk hundreds of miles away, nd dey do understand me dey just have different ideas than me at da mo

[pinkkitty]

i agree with leewayne, your parents can't look after you forever, but could you not ask your sister nicely if she'll help you out. Or, maybe you could just tidy up after yourself and leave your dad & sister to clean up their own messes?

[glitzybabe]

well yeah i know dey aint gonna look after me, hence why im leavin next year, but i feel bad leavin ma dad to do everything nd trust me ma sistas won't help,

[leewayne]

Im sure your dad will be fine,there was a time when he probably done everything with your mum when you were babies.Maybe your dad should write a rota out to help out,there old enough to help out and tidy up after themselves now.It may seem tiring but you should be thankful you havent got bills to pay yet!!

[redcrx]

can you refrain from the text speak. A few more people may be able to offer advice if they can actually understand you.

Its all jusy gobbledegook, I thought you said mum had moved away but then you keep talking about ma and da

[chazza]

Well said! You're not texting and you're not being charged per character, so try using proper English, like you were taught at school!

[glitzybabe]

lol i can write how i lyk thanx, and i apologise if youse dont understand it i'll try to write proper then! my mum had moved away, and yeah maybe a rota is a good idea thanks, sorry if i seemed rude i apologise and i do appreciate the advise honestly i do thank you

[4getmenot]

you can write how you want yes, just be warned you wont get as many answers

[glitzybabe]

yes so ive been told and i did just apologise

[bigmamma]

Hello , it appears that with your father , your elder sister , and yourself , that it's a house of adults and therefore each of you should pull your weight equally surely .Can you speak to them about this and come to an agreement that you all share the chores ? All the best :-)

[glitzybabe]

thank you, but im the kinf of girl who doesn't like asking them for help because i know that ma big sister will always find a way to get out of it and i am certainly not goin 2 ask my dad because he's got other things to worry about the now

[4getmenot]

then if you cant ask it wont get any better. This is the only way you will get any help is if you talk about it, if you hide your problems it will only be your own fault. Just try and talk to them.

[johnlambert]

glitzybabe
Are you from Scotland by any chance?

[mycats]

OI John you're not palming her off on us! :-)

[glitzybabe]

yes im from the isle of lewis, but i was born and brought up in england altho ma dads orkadian, nd hoi wot av i done now all i do was ask a simple question den i have everyone out 2 get me cos of the way i type?!? makes no sense,

[johnlambert]

mycats, I'm from Scotland, born + bred in Edinburgh!!

[glitzybabe]

can i just ask wot does where i live or where i was brought up got anything 2 do wiv da way i type or wotever da reason was for u 2 ask me?

[bigmamma]

My mum , bless , was from there too johnlambert and always called us her wee bairns and the females wee lasses .:-)