need advice please help.

[GINGER BIRD]

ive been seeing a guy for just over a year now . he has had a bad past and i am always buying him stuff. not big things just nice little things that show i care. he says he doesnt know how to react to them when they arrive at his place. its along distance relationship and he has talked about moving in with me and all the rest of it bla bla bla . i went for a visit last weekend and it went ok i asked if he wantec to carry on seeing me and he said yes he did, but since i got home he wont return my calls. what would you do ?

[123everton]

Dead beats are dead beats (how old is he?) get yourself a working man, far less trouble.

[GINGER BIRD]

Hes 40 he does work but it seems i am doing all the work in the relationship ! thanks for the quick answer x

[123everton]

He sounds like an arse hole, if he was anymore of a bum he'd need 2 pairs of pants!

[tiggerblue10]

I'm no expert in relationships but it seems he doesn't know what he wants. I would confront him about it and then you will at least know one way or the other.

[BugsyMalone]

I'd say you seem to be putting in the majority of the effort into this relationship and infact relationships are a two way thing..most definetly.

Personally i think long distance relationsips from one or both of the peope involved is the need of not wanting to be tied down as such but to know you can fall back on someone when your own local agendas arent working..if you feel this is what you want i dont think you would have asked the question and obviously from the amount of effort youre putting into this relationship u possibly want something a bit more stable....

Girl i say that theres 50% more or less of the population of who are male go out there and get yourself someone less complicated and who respects you as much as you should be respecting yourself. Good things come when least expected..Believe thats all im saying