Road rules1 min ago
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i have been with my fella 4 6 years now and he has asked me if i would contemplate going to a swinging party. Our sex life isnt exactly great. What do you think. Does it ruin a relationship?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.was this out of the blue or did you know he was wanting to swing? Its up to you what you do but if your sex life isnt exactly great why not try spicing it up between yourselves before taking a big step like swinging?
I think I would flop my fella if he suggested it to me, or faint, or faint then flop him lol but each to their own.
I think I would flop my fella if he suggested it to me, or faint, or faint then flop him lol but each to their own.
Wouldnt even go there...I know a couple that done sumink similar and they both ended up jealous and started fighting, needless to say they split up not long after that....your name is interesting.."shyblonde", maybe you should try and get more confident in the bedroom department...allthough if my fella said that to me, I would take it as an insult and and send him packing or should I say flying out the door!!!!
meltoadhall
A swinging party is a partner swapping sex party.. to put it bluntly.
shyblond..
The very fact you have asked this question shows that you are not comfortable with the idea, and if one person in the couple isn't comfortable with it then don't do it
swapping partners is something that can only ever be considered if all party's are 110% comfortable with the idea, if they are not then doubt will creep in and it will hurt your relationship!
A swinging party is a partner swapping sex party.. to put it bluntly.
shyblond..
The very fact you have asked this question shows that you are not comfortable with the idea, and if one person in the couple isn't comfortable with it then don't do it
swapping partners is something that can only ever be considered if all party's are 110% comfortable with the idea, if they are not then doubt will creep in and it will hurt your relationship!