Lost my Dad 8 weeks ago , and its my birthday coming up soon, 20th to be exact... this is going to be my first birthday without Dad, how am i going to cope, we were soooo close, and mum has given me a card(which i havent opened) but i wonder who she has put the card from... either mum or mum n dad either way i know it will upset me ... shall i open the card at all?? PS im gonna be 37