Update on friend's cheating husband

[mrs_overall]

After being presented with evidence that her husband was playing away, my friend cleared off to her daughter's for a few days to think things through. She returned at the weekend and they sat down to thrash the matter out. He begged forgiveness, swore it had only happened a couple of times etc etc so she decided to forgive him. Last night he went out to the chippie to buy their tea....an outing that should have taken him 10 minutes max. He returned FIVE HOURS later, without the chips and swore blind that he'd got caught up in a drugs raid in the chippie!!! She noticed that he'd come home with his sweatshirt on inside out. She promptly packed his bags and threw him out. What a weasel that man is.

[ladybird49]

Good on her -she deserves better than a lying cheat !

[redcrx]

omg! how did he ever think she'd believe him!

good for her!

[Schutzengel]

Good for her !!! It's only what he thoroughly deserves. It won't be easy, but I hope all goes well for your friend.

[mrs_overall]

lol, I know! The chippie is in the wilds in North Yorkshire...a typical druggie haven.....not!

[Jan1957]

Who told her in the end Mrs O. I know you were worried about it. Been through it myself so know what it's like. Glad she finally knows the truth.

[mrs_overall]

Jan, there were 4 of us debating who would tell her. We drew lots and one of us (not me!) took her out for a drink & told her.

I was round there this morning & she's bearing up and is still at the angry stage.

[dot.hawkes]

and how predictable, once a cheat always a cheat, men have no loyalty, no concience and no brains (tho not every man, just alot)

[mccfluff]

"drug raid in a fish shop" that was the best he could come up with, she's def better off without him, although i guess this is going to be a tough time for her, all the best mrs o x

[mrs_overall]

lol Zacsmaster, he deffo said drugs raid. The chippie in question is a narrow wooden shack that can accomodate 4 customers at once!

[redcrx]

maybe they were busy and had a queue last night :)

[Beads]

They're all sodding liars mrs_overall!! Trust none of them!! :) (sorry guys!)

[sqad617]

Somehow, this story does not add up. The family waited 5hours for their fish and chips, without searching for him or phoning the police or the hospital....5hrs!!!!

If he was having a "bit on the side"....5hours worth?? I would be bored with the "mistress" once I had "finished"....which unfortunately is pretty quick LOL
And dot my love, MEN have no loyalty or conscience etc, just surf www. illicitencounters .com and reassess you view of married women.

Not convinced of wife's account.

[jno]

five hours in a chippie? Sounds like a battered husband...

[EmEd1984]

omg what a rat!! i can't believe he even insulted her with that excuse, as if she'd believe it!! good on her anyway for booting him out, it's so difficult to put your foot down when you love someone, regardless of what they've done. the difficult bit for her now is getting him out of her system, but i'm sure you'll look after her mrs_o
:)

[sqad617]

jno....LOL LOL. by the sound of things he certainly has had his chips now. If we are not careful this thread will turn into a pun on fish names.

[mrs_overall]

sqad, I'm only relating what she told me. Maybe not every man is as premature as you? ;)

[sqad617]

Him "playing away" is the symptom, what we have to do is find the cause and that may prove quite intersting and involve getting his side of the story.

[wolf63]

If that was the best lie he could come up with after 5 hours he truly is a pathetic little toad.

Best wishes to your pal.