Poltergeist. May I offer my sincere sympathy on the loss of your mother. I'm so sorry, do take care of yourself.
Oh! Velvetee. I remember reading of your worries about the care your mother needed, and of how stressful it was for you as you are expecting a precious baby. It is so sad that you lost your mother on Mother's Day, but it is a blessing that she was able to stay in her own home, without having to go into care, and in her own words she was feeling fine right up to the last short while of her life. It's hard now, but in time you will be able to look back and appreciate that you did have a few precious words with your mother on the day she left you. Do take good care of yourself, she will always be watching over you. Deepest Sympathy. Schutz.