If a parent says they dont want you and another parent tells you the hate you what do you do i do not understand how should you feel ?? CONFUSED HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
people say the stupidest things when they are angry. or, it could be that you have complete bar stewards for parents. either way, you should not depend on others for your self confidence and worth. you are a person in your own right and as such will make your way in life in the best way you see fit. take care honey x
also you feel how you feel, you can't be told how (that's just the way it is!). However, you can then think what to do next or how best to use those feelings.
As said above, people say things they don't mean when tired, stressed, in the heat of the moment (more often in hot, humid weather, actually!), so try and think about it objectively and rationally - might be easier said than done.
Remind your parents you didn't ask to be born but since you're here you have to make the best of what you got, including ignorant parents. that should gob smack them!
babiee-casey, are you still reading this thread? I'm assuming you're quite young. If you need to talk to someone about this, can I suggest you ring childline on 0800 11 11.
The call is free, and you can talk to them about any problems at all in secret.